Lust.. or Love..?

People tend to get confused or mix up these two – Lust and Love! What is lust..? What is love..? Lust is purely physical. When those hormones hit your brain, you’ll crave for sex. This thought is generally termed as lust. Now here comes the tough question; what is love..? If you ask this question to 100 people, you may get 100 different answers and that is the main difference between lust and love.

Love is subjective and hence cannot be completely defined with just one statement. We have often heard adjectives and statements like, Love is blind (does that mean it has eyes, but no vision), True Love (Okay, so why don’t u say True Lust when those physical feelings are also real?!) etc. Also, we use Heart symbol to denote Love. Does our heart really have something to do with Love..? It has been ages since people relate brain with logic and heart with love. Let us keep it as such for the time being 🙂

Love is the purest emotion which is quite flexible and exist in many forms. We know it exist, but how do we feel it?! Yes, mainly through our physical body. Be it a smile, a gaze, a touch, a hug or a kiss.. Whatever! You ‘express’ your love.. If so, Sex isn’t a way to express Love..?! There comes the twist.. We have two hearts.. One is physical which is safely placed in our chest cavity and beats approx 72 times per minute. Other one is the spiritual heart which cannot be seen as a physical form.. It can only be felt. (Note Please : Here, Spirituality is not connected to any religion. What I meant by spirituality is simply existing in a higher plane with full awareness! 🙂 )
Normally when love is felt by physical heart, you have a tendency to express it physically – hugs, kisses etc. When it is felt by the spiritual heart, that’s entirely different! You may not need a body to express it.. it is simply felt somewhere deep inside.. Soul..? May be.. Feelings are considered to be the language of soul.. So the next question, which is good? Well.. both of them are good and serves different purposes! There are no rights or wrongs here.. Everything is subjective in the world of Love. Love resides within us. And the other person just acts as a catalyst for that experience. Whether you physically express it or not – that’s purely your choice. If you are happy with expressing, do it. Otherwise, don’t. But it should naturally come.. Don’t ever force yourself or act. That’s the most important rule in the world of Love!

When you get physically intimate with a person you love, your spiritual heart (deep feelings) also gets involved in the act. That is why it is called love making and not just sex. You wont get that feeling of oneness otherwise. Yeah, sex can be done with anyone to satisfy your physical needs, but love making can be done only when there is Love!
Share yourself only with the person you Love.. Share your’self’.. It has a deeper meaning.. 🙂


Soulmate.. Your Soul’s Choice!


Are you still searching for your ‘soulmate’ to make you complete..? Or you’ve already found? (For those who’ve found) Okay, finally you found him/her and then..? Hit the ‘Next’ arrow in your life and carefully watch those multiple frames.. Next.. Next.. Next.. Are you happy in all those frames? Are you still with your soulmate or moved on?

I have been hearing this concept of soulmate and better-half since my childhood. Do they really exist..? Or is it just a concept..? If they exist, how would you find and recognize them?! Well.. there are many articles over web, portraying different ideas and philosophies on this topic.. Today I’ll share one that impressed me.

Every single human being have both male and female elements. When the male element is dominant he is considered as man, when the female element is dominant she is considered as a woman. That means, every man has a woman inside him and every woman has a man inside her. So, why do you look out and search for people to make you complete..? You just need to look inside yourself and start loving your partner, ur true soulmate! It’s weird; but its magical to experience the ‘bliss’ when that union of male and female takes place within you..
How is it possible? Definitely through yoga and meditation; that teaches you to look inside and bring the awareness. You’ll experience an ultimate orgasm that stays forever.. A state of eternal bliss!
Now, if this is true why do we meet people, fall in love, get married ( or may be not) and deal with all those emotional dramas?! 😉
We are here to learn and progress.. As Michelle Ventor quoted in his poem, “People comes to our life for a reason, season or lifetime”.. Whatever be the relation, we may call that as companionship. Together we learn, and progress in this life. They are not here to make us complete as it is not needed when we are complete by ourselves! You are Complete and You are Energy.. All you need is just touch and experience the Eternal Bliss!

Mother’s Love #2 – Black or White?


Me : “Aunty, Do u like white or black?”
Sara Aunty : “I like both..”
Me (confused): ” Okay, but which one you like more?”
Sara Aunty : ” Sometimes black.. Sometimes white..I like both ”
Me (more confused): ” But why so?!”
Sara Aunty (she smiled) : “When they are together they make more beautiful pictures than being alone. Knowing this truth, how can I show partiality?! I like both ”
We both looked at each other and bursted out in laughter..!!
I understood that she conveyed a very important lesson to be remembered throughout our life; “Opposite values are complimentary..” Just like how day and night, hot and cold, hills and valleys, happiness and sorrows; everything in this universe exist “together” with its complimentary. And One loses its value without the existence of other. Yes, that keeps the balance .. !

Topper’s Syndrome !!


Do you want to go back to your past and correct few things..? You all might’ve faced this question at least once in life.. Me too 🙂
Quite often I feel if I could go back to my teens, I could’ve lived in a better way, I could’ve bunked classes, scored less marks at school and do more pranks so that I have a bundle of memories when I am in 30s.. Seriously, I dont remember much of the lectures I heard in high school.. And I really dont know where I applied sin and cos in my life.. Okay, sin/cos = tan ; so……?! 🙂 I was one among the topper students at school, for which I felt very much proud and good in those days.. My teachers liked me, no scoldings from parents too.. Everyone said/thought I’ll conquer heights and be successful in life.. though their definition of success was different from mine!
I thought twice before writing this here. No fiction, No add-ons or exaggerations – this is a true experience from my own life, so I’m just sharing my views and my personal opinion.. If one of you could think in a different way, that may help a lot of confused young minds.. may be our own kids. This is the only reason that pushed me to expose the hidden part.
Other than Multiple Sclerosis, I have another chronic disease and this is with my mind.. I call it “Topper’s Syndrome”, as I see the same state with few of my friends at school and college who were really good with their studies and scored very high marks in exams.
What it is…? See.. in all those young years of your life you have topped in exams, being the ‘favourite’ student of your teachers etc – all good words and glories around. Have you ever faced failure? Do you know how it feels to score less mark and see those frowning faces..? Have you dealt with the toughest situation to attend a Parent- Teacher Meeting, with a failed progress card..? Yes.. Fear of Failures! Once you are into the real world- job, family, responsibilities, liabilities.. whatever; things wont be that easy as solving a tough maths problem. Life may not always treat you fairly.. And a small hit would push you down like anything; then you dont know how to get up.. You cannot accept your friends overtaking your position (ofcourse, you are not used to it and dont know how to respond). You cannot take all those emotional dramas and breakups because you’ve only tasted the nectar of success so far and it has got soooo much into your head and created a false image like ” Oh comeon, I am such a smart and brilliant guy/lady.. How can I take a wrong move that eventually ended up unsuccessfully?! No way!!”
Topper’s Syndrome.. 🙂
I’m not saying you shouldn’t study.. you should.. but its better to be an average student who struggles to get a decent number on the value sheet.. They may be familiar with the tough situations much more than a topper student. And they may know how to tackle challenging situations in life – of course, with their experience!
Next time when you see average marks in your child’s exam sheet; think twice before you scold and beat. Realize that they may be learning much more valuable lessons, which would help them to live in a better way.. a quality life! 🙂